Relationships 

Relationship problems are often challenging to deal with because of the simple fact that relationships are a complex interactive dynamic where two people are trying to live in harmony but have different ideas of what harmony is. It does not matter if you are gay straight or bisexual, a relationship is about people not about sexuality. Hidden agendas and issues around control, trust and commitment issues can complicate any marriage or relationship, sexual problems can leave one partner feeling embarrassed and isolated, and this can leave the other person feeling unloved or rejected. By talking to a therapist on your own or with a partner you can explore the thoughts and feelings centred on your ability to communicate effectively your emotional needs to others.

Wondering what to do? Thinking about her him or

you?

When thinking of starting marriage guidance or seeking independent relationship assistance. One very important consideration to remember is that you do not need to bring a partner into therapy, when to seeking help with your marriage or relationship you can have therapy sessions for relationship problems on your own. People do find this way of actioning relationship issues very helpful, especially when its about should I end the relationship or try saving it, for some its about questioning the actions of their partner within the relationship , is it abusive or controlling, is a common question people seek to ask.

Trying to find clarity?

• Understanding your anger and frustration and what it means for you • Work through confusion and uncertainty • Learn to work past a divorce or separation • Work on self-esteem issues and insecurity issues to improve the quality of your relationship • Find new ways to get what you need emotionally that may also improve the physical side of your life • Working with issues such anger and learn how to understand and use emotions constructively and become more independent

Can online counselling help me with my

relationships?

With relationship counselling over the Internet you can explore the complexity of your internal needs and external experiences to allow a clearer picture of who you are and what you really need from a relationship, it can help you find a new clearer understanding of how to help yourself or even find a new way forward, there maybe quite a difference between what you think you want and what you actually need from a relationship. As social beings we need the company or social interaction with others to fulfil our needs, both emotionally and physically, we need the support network that friendships and family provide us with, to help in times of emotional turmoil and need. Some of the most important relationships are the ones that we experience in our childhood, the emotional support that is given or withheld can shape the way we attach to others in the future, our childhood can set the building blocks for our future relationships. As children we are nurtured within a family and social network that provides us with the safe environment to explore our world and to grow emotionally, in time we ourselves are providing the support for others as we grow, but for some this is an ideal that they never fully experience, perhaps from physical, sexual abuse or psychological abuse. The ability to grow emotionally can be replaced with a distorted view of life that can lead to a distorted view of their needs within any relationship. This can have a number of repercussions in later life, from subconsciously (not knowingly) looking for and finding abusive relationships in the future or pushing people away to limit the likelihood of it happening again. Not all people need to have suffered such tragic abuse to find relationships a problem, seemingly simple behaviours can destroy a relationship from within, feelings of insecurity or low self-esteem can lead to a person feeling the need to constantly test the relationship either with constant demands for physical needs like sex or being constantly emotionally clingy, or demanding lots of affection and attention, there maybe jealousy lead unfounded accusations and out bursts of anger.

Learn new communication skills

Not many people actually communicate at a level that makes a relationship work, how many times have you felt hurt by a partners actions or words but have never said so, you just ignored or buried it away, or left it simmering until it builds up into a major explosion of anger or frustration. Communication leads to better relationships and online counselling is worth trying before it gets out of hand. Better communication leads to better relationships. When in therapy you can explore the issues surrounding your life in a safe and confidential environment that will allow you the freedom to test new ways of thinking and feeling.

Other benefits  include

Understanding of anger and frustration and what it means for you. End confusion and uncertainty. Learn to work past a divorce or separation. Work on self-esteem issues and confidence issues to improve the quality of your life. Find new ways to get what you need emotionally that may also improve the physical side of your life. Working with issues such as anger you can learn how to understand and use emotions constructively and become more self-assertive without being aggressive.

Relationships 

Relationship problems are often challenging to deal with because of the simple fact that relationships are a complex interactive dynamic where two people are trying to live in harmony but have different ideas of what harmony is. It does not matter if you are gay straight or bisexual, a relationship is about people not about sexuality. Hidden agendas and issues around control, trust and commitment issues can complicate any marriage or relationship, sexual problems can leave one partner feeling embarrassed and isolated, and this can leave the other person feeling unloved or rejected. By talking to a therapist on your own or with a partner you can explore the thoughts and feelings centred on your ability to communicate effectively your emotional needs to others.

Wondering what to do? Thinking

about her him or you?

When thinking of starting marriage guidance or seeking independent relationship assistance. One very important consideration to remember is that you do not need to bring a partner into therapy, when to seeking help with your marriage or relationship you can have therapy sessions for relationship problems on your own. People do find this way of actioning relationship issues very helpful, especially when its about should I end the relationship or try saving it, for some its about questioning the actions of their partner within the relationship , is it abusive or controlling, is a common question people seek to ask.

Trying to find clarity?

• Understanding your anger and frustration and what it means for you • Work through confusion and uncertainty • Learn to work past a divorce or separation • Work on self-esteem issues and insecurity issues to improve the quality of your relationship • Find new ways to get what you need emotionally that may also improve the physical side of your life • Working with issues such anger and learn how to understand and use emotions constructively and become more independent

Can online counselling help me

with my relationships?

With relationship counselling over the Internet you can explore the complexity of your internal needs and external experiences to allow a clearer picture of who you are and what you really need from a relationship, it can help you find a new clearer understanding of how to help yourself or even find a new way forward, there maybe quite a difference between what you think you want and what you actually need from a relationship. As social beings we need the company or social interaction with others to fulfil our needs, both emotionally and physically, we need the support network that friendships and family provide us with, to help in times of emotional turmoil and need. Some of the most important relationships are the ones that we experience in our childhood, the emotional support that is given or withheld can shape the way we attach to others in the future, our childhood can set the building blocks for our future relationships. As children we are nurtured within a family and social network that provides us with the safe environment to explore our world and to grow emotionally, in time we ourselves are providing the support for others as we grow, but for some this is an ideal that they never fully experience, perhaps from physical, sexual abuse or psychological abuse. The ability to grow emotionally can be replaced with a distorted view of life that can lead to a distorted view of their needs within any relationship. This can have a number of repercussions in later life, from subconsciously (not knowingly) looking for and finding abusive relationships in the future or pushing people away to limit the likelihood of it happening again. Not all people need to have suffered such tragic abuse to find relationships a problem, seemingly simple behaviours can destroy a relationship from within, feelings of insecurity or low self-esteem can lead to a person feeling the need to constantly test the relationship either with constant demands for physical needs like sex or being constantly emotionally clingy, or demanding lots of affection and attention, there maybe jealousy lead unfounded accusations and out bursts of anger.

Learn new communication skills

Not many people actually communicate at a level that makes a relationship work, how many times have you felt hurt by a partners actions or words but have never said so, you just ignored or buried it away, or left it simmering until it builds up into a major explosion of anger or frustration. Communication leads to better relationships and online counselling is worth trying before it gets out of hand. Better communication leads to better relationships. When in therapy you can explore the issues surrounding your life in a safe and confidential environment that will allow you the freedom to test new ways of thinking and feeling.

Other benefits  include

Understanding of anger and frustration and what it means for you. End confusion and uncertainty. Learn to work past a divorce or separation. Work on self-esteem issues and confidence issues to improve the quality of your life. Find new ways to get what you need emotionally that may also improve the physical side of your life. Working with issues such as anger you can learn how to understand and use emotions constructively and become more self-assertive without being aggressive.